After that last post, I had to go into town. And on the drive I thought about things. And remembered that I have known all along that this is going nowhere. He TOLD me that. But because Im a stupid, stupid girl, lurking in the back of my mind has always been the 'he could change his mind' factor. Fed by other people also, saying that I should give him time and he could change his mind.
I guess the only problem is if he is sleeping with anyone else. Given that we met on a "dating" site, its pretty much a given that hes still on there and potentially still meeting other people. If he is sleeping with them, then Im out. So I will need to have that conversation with him, purely for my own peace of mind (and health).
I guess its been a while. I like him. It makes me scared. And I dont remember the last time I met a guys friends... But he hasnt changed his mind, and he is not likely to. So now I just need to make up my own.
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You aren't a stupid girl. You are naturally romantic, and so you hope for the romantic ending. It doesn't make you stupid... but in this case you have to keep reminding yourself to be realistic is all.
And yes please do have that conversation with him. Great sex stops being great sex when you end up with nasties.
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