L is for the way you look at me

Candi is officially in love, and loved back.

So the L word was said last night. First time Ive had it said to me, and returned it back (other than the obvious friends and family). Its a bit exciting. A bit scary, but mostly just causing this giant smile on my face :)

We had a weekend away up in Palmy, and despite tiredness and a few down moments, it went really well. We are able to deal with each other quite well when the other is tired and quiet, and communicate really well too - which has always been a difficult one for me. Its just so much easier now.

And he has told his mum about the Nora stuff. He told me this morning, and it made me slightly uncomfortable. He has told her because she is a life coach, and deals with that sort of thing, and can actually help when Im ready to sit down and talk to her about it. Which is nice. And I realise the reason he did it is because he does want to help me. And because its no longer just my problem, its his too. The fact that it affects me, in turn ends up affecting him, especially when Im in a period where she is talking to me, and I am listening (which thankfully is less often than it used to be). His mum is lovely too, so that helps. It just might take me a wee while before I go to her for it, and he has specified that she said she would love to help, and that she will wait for me to bring it up, rather than making me feel like i have to talk about it whenever im round there.

Understanding boyfriend who loves me?? Yeah lifes pretty sweet right now :)